Fairytale doesn't exist in real life.

You’ve seen Disney movies. Life is a fairytale. Cinderella found her prince. Sleeping beauty found her prince. Snow white found her prince. So did mermaid. In most of the Disney movies, the female lead always finds her prince charming. There’s always a happy ending. But do you think life is like a fairytale?

We often seek for our typical prince charming; handsome, tall, hot body, rich, smart, romantic etc.  How many such guys can u find in this world? You may find one like this but the guy may not love you that much or he might not be treating you right.

Girls are said to be mature at an early age compare to guys. Thus, girls are always advised to find guys which are few years older. A FEW YEARS. I’ve heard of many advices from people. They say that it is best to find a guy which is about 5 years older than you. This is because the guy will be more mature than you.  He knows how to treat you right. He’ll be a more responsible person.

Well, I personally don’t think it’s true. Perhaps majority of the guys which are older than you few years are more mature. But NOT ALL. There are still a minority of guys who are mature at a young age. Of course, it is VERY VERY hard to find.

Find a partner who is responsible, respects you. Girls should never give in everything to their boyf. When I say everything, you know what I mean (: Sex. It does not prove ur level of love towards ur partner. Or even if it is just stripping. It is certainly not right. If the guy forces you, that clearly shows he does not respect you and he is still immature. A person who knows how to think will not do such thing. It is ridiculous when the guy says he can’t control.

How many of you girls ever felt like you’re his mother more than his girlfriend? Your boyfriend is so dependent on you that every hour, every minute, every second, you can’t stop worrying about him because he simply don’t know how to handle himself. Oh wait, this is worse than a mother.

Remember, find a MAN. NOT a guy.

Hey, I’m not bias alright. I’m not saying that all guys in this world are horrible creatures. I am only saying those kind of guys mentioned above. And guys, same thing to you. Don’t be too clingy or too dependent on ur partner. Your partner will feel suffocated. You’re only driving him/her crazy!

You can't expect your partner to please you all the time. Don't act like you're a REAL PRINCESS. Your partner may tolerate you but think, how long can he tolerate you? You've gotta give and take. Don't be so demanding. And know your partner's capability. Don't take him/her as you ATM machine or your maid. Plus, don't act as if ur partner is ur mind reader that he/she knows what you expects. If you don't say it out, who on earth knows what you want or what you're thinking. It takes two person's effort to work a relationship out. Respect each other.

I'm not a love expert. I learnt from experience and am still learning.

Fairytale does not happen in real life. It only happens in storybooks and movies.